Your assistant watches quietly and pings only you.
Copy it on a conversation and it checks in on its own, emailing you when something needs your attention.
Quiet by default
Your assistant writes only when there is a real open item or something worth acting on. The rest of the time it stays silent.
Only ever to you
Alerts land in your inbox alone. Your assistant never replies to the other people on the conversation.
No midnight pings
Your assistant checks in on a regular schedule and keeps to your quiet hours, so nothing lands in your inbox at 2 AM.
Put a watchful eye on the conversations that matter.
Copy your assistant on one email and see what it catches.